One day a young man was standing in the
middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful
heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all
admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a
flaw in it.
Yes, they all agreed it truly was the
most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very
proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said,
"Why your heart is not nearly as
beautiful as mine." The crowd and the young man looked at the old
man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had
places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but
they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges.
In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces
were missing.
The people stared -- how can he say his
heart is more beautiful, they thought? The young man looked at
the old man's heart and saw its state and laughed. "You must be
joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect
and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old man, "yours is
perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every
scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear
out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give
me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my
heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough
edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we
shared. Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the
other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These
are the empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance. Although
these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the
love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may
return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what
true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears
running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached
into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece
out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old
man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a
piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in
the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were
some jagged edges. The young man looked at his heart, not perfect
anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old
man's heart flowed into his. They embraced and walked away side
by side.