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How to
make the Prophet Muhammad{p.b.u.h}come alive for our children?
By Tauseef Abdul Kareem
There are small ways to instill a love for the blessed
Prophet{p.b.u.h} while showing what a critical role his example
plays in every Muslim's life. Sit down with a pen and a paper,
think and decide together about seven activities you can do in a
week concerning the life of the Prophet{p.b.u.h}.
Travel with the Prophet{p.b.u.h}
Get a map of Arabia, or better yet, get the kids to draw or trace
one from an atlas.
Then, note down the different places he travelled to from Makkah
or Madinah.
Each voyage should also be researched and presented to the whole
family by one person in the course of a family discussion or
meeting.
Wake up with the Prophet {p.b.u.h}
The Prophet{p.b.u.h} would wake up everyday before dawn, before
the start of the Fajr prayer, to worship Allah through Salat, Dua,
Zikr, etc.
This is an excellent way to become closer to Allah, at a time
when concentration is at its
peak, minds are clear of daily worries and according to one
Hadith, Allah is very close to us.
Organise storytelling night
This can be done at bed-time, after the kids come home from
school or any other time conducive to learning. The first step
of loving and learning from the Prophet{p.b.u.h} and his life is
to know about him and what made him great. You can buy
children's books (link) about his life, or even listen to them on
tape (put link to stories on cassette) while you're in the car
on your way to or from school.
Sleep like him{p.b.u.h}
The Prophet{p.b.u.h}used to sleep in a unique way and would say a
Dua or two before it.
The Prophet{p.b.u.h}slept on his right side, with his right hand
under his right cheek.
He used to make Wudu before going to bed also.
He used to recite one or two Duas before sleeping and recite a
few short portions of the Quran.
Eat like him {p.b.u.h}
There are reports about the type of food he used to eat or liked
most.
Make a list of those items. The Prophet{p.b.u.h} advised
Muslims to eat in a way that after eating, the stomach is only
one-third full. We also should wash our hands before eating,
recite "Bismillah" (in the Name of Allah) and other Duas before
we begin, as well as eat only with our right hand.
Pray like the Prophet {p.b.u.h}
During the lifetime of the Prophet {p.b.u.h}, if a person made a
mistake in the recitation of the Quran, he was corrected by
others present during the prayer.When you are teaching your kids
how to live like the Prophet, have a different person lead
prayer each day and correct their mistakes if they make any.
Play like the Prophet {p.b.u.h}
The Prophet{p.b.u.h} understood the importance of fun and games.
He would race with his wife Ai' sha who used to beat him most of
the time, may Allah be pleased with her.
He would swim and wrestle with his Companions.
He would joke with them too.
He played with and loved children.
A Note on Parents
Parents are the gifts from Allah,
we must love them.
Parents give us birth,
we must obey them.
Parents are our elders,
we must respect them.
Parents teach us,
we must understand them.
He granteth wisdom to whom He pleaseth; and
he to whom wisdom is granted receiveth indeed a benefit
overflowing; but none will grasp the Message but men of
understanding. (al-Baqarah: 269)
"O my Lord! bestow wisdom on me, and join
me with the Righteous;"
(ash-Shu`ara': 83)
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