We hear often speakers in Friday prayer talking about Paradise
and all of us find their hearts, minds and thoughts tuned on that
"frequency". However, the speakers in their majority talk about
Paradise as if it were a house for men only. Reality is not like
that. Paradise is for believers men and women. The only price for
it is belief in Allah, Love of Allah and His Messenger, and
obedience to Allah and His Messenger.
In what follows are the glad tidings given by the Messenger of
Allah, salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam, to three women among his
companions.
Narrated 'Aisha:
I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet as
much as I did of Khadija (although) she died before he married
me, for I often heard him mentioning her, and Allah had told him
to give her the good tidings that she would have a palace of
Qasab (i.e. pipes of precious stones and pearls in Paradise), and
whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would send her women-friends
a good share of it. [al-Bukhari]
Narrated Ismail:
I asked 'Abdullah bin Abi Aufa, "Did the Prophet give glad
tidings to Khadija?" He said, "Yes, of a palace of Qasab (in
Paradise) where there will be neither any noise nor any
fatigue."[al-Bukhari]
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Jibreel (Gabriel) came to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's
Apostle! This is Khadija coming to you with a dish having meat
soup (or some food or drink). When she reaches you, greet her on
behalf of her Lord (i.e. Allah) and on my behalf, and give her
the glad tidings of having a Qasab palace in Paradise wherein
there will be neither any noise nor any fatigue (trouble) . "
[al-Bukhari]
Narrated 'Ata bin Abi Rabah:
Ibn 'Abbas said to me, "Shall I show you a woman of the people
of Paradise?" I said, "Yes." He said, "This black lady came to
the Prophet and said, 'I get attacks of epilepsy and my body
becomes uncovered; please invoke Allah for me.' The Prophet said
(to her), 'If you wish, be patient and you will have (enter)
Paradise; and if you wish, I will invoke Allah to cure you.' She
said, 'I will remain patient,' and added, 'but I become
uncovered, so please invoke Allah for me that I may not become
uncovered.' So he invoked Allah for her." [al-Bukhari]
Narrated Jabir bin Abdullah:
The Prophet said, "I saw myself (in a dream) entering
Paradise, and behold! I saw Ar-Rumaisa', Abu Talha's wife. I
heard footsteps. I asked, Who is it? Somebody said, 'It is Bilal
' Then I saw a palace and a lady sitting in its courtyard. I
asked, 'For whom is this palace?' Somebody replied, 'It is for 'Umar.'
I intended to enter it and see it, but I thought of your ('Umar's)
Ghira (and gave up the attempt)." 'Umar said, "Let my parents be
sacrificed for you, O Allah's Apostle! How dare I think of my
Ghira (self-respect) being offended by you? [al-Bukhari]
After this short trip to the time of prophethood, and to
Paradise, let us come back to earth and to our time.
These were women..., and they deserved Paradise..., why? how?
My dear Muslim fellow and especially sisters YOU MUST learn
how these women lived, what they did in their lives, how they
behaved, how they spoke, how they dressed, how they walked, how
they ....
The black woman mentioned in this Hadith is not even known by
her name, or who she were, she is rather known by her deeds, her
faith, her modesty, her chastity, her care about not being
uncovered and for her being an inmate of Paradise. And that is
what matters indeed.
There are few points that are worth mentioning in regard of
her case :
-She was physically sick, yet she sought cure in the du`a of
the Messenger of Allah, salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam. she knew
that the one who cures, ash_Shaafee, is Allah. and Allah would
answer the answer of His messenger.
-She prefered being patient and suffering in this world and
getting the eternal reward of Paradise. Remember :
Iman+Suffering+Patience==> Paradise. She suffered from sickness,
in their way to pleasing Allah and obeying Him, other women can
suffer from society, from family, or from other sources [as was
the case of some Sahabiyyaat]. And no matter who you are, if you
are in the path of Allah you will encounter difficulties, because
Paradise is rounded by hardships. If things are easy and just
flowing then one must check him/herself. Especially in this
American environment, it may be difficult for a young man to wear
a beard [and yet it is mandatory], not to talk to women and be
away from them [and yet it is mandatory] except if necessary and
to ... and not to ... and it may be difficult for a young woman
to wear the dress of modesty, the hijab (1) [and yet it is
mandatory], not to talk to men and be away from them [and yet it
is mandatory] except if necessary and to ...and not to ... All
these may be difficult to achieve for some in the beginning, but
when one overcomes him/herself for the sake of Allah, then all
the other obstacles are nothing. How to overcome oneself? By
knowing Allah by His names and attributes, by loving Allah and
His Messenger, by obeying Him and His Messenger ... and then the
help of Allah is there since He is the one who is pleased, and
let the world fall down and collapse as long as Allah is pleased
and let the world fall down and collapse as long as Allah is not
displeased.
(1) hijab IS NOT a piece of cloth a woman puts on her head as
a head cover or scarf while the rest of the body is covered with
tight or shape revealing dress [such as pants] or while mingling
with men and talking to them as some ignorants and deviants [the
most dangerous ones being the modernists] want muslim women to
believe, and they led astray many of them unfortunately. Hijab is
much more than that physically, morally and spiritually.
-She prefered being patient, but could not tolerate that her
honor, her modesty and her chastity be damaged or even touched,
nor that any part of her body be uncovered, though she had no
control over it. Indeed She was a real slave and servant of
Allah, she was a faithful, she was a believer, she was a muslimah,
she was a righteous and pious woman, she was a truthful woman,
she was loyal to Allah and His Messenger, she was a smart and
wise woman, she was a great woman, she was ... she said :
"but I become uncovered, so please invoke Allah for me [make
du`a to Allah for me] that I may not become uncovered."
If words are to be written in Gold, these words should be
written in gold ...
Dear sisters,
If you want Paradise, follow the black woman, may Allah be
pleased with her, follow Khadija, may Allah be pleased with her,
follow Ar-Rumaisa' may Allah be pleased with her.
Dear sisters,
Ask yourself what made Khadija be greeted by Allah Subhanahu
wa Ta`aalaa and by Jibreel alaihi as-Salaam. Ask yourself what
made Khadija be rewarded a Palace in Jannah as noone can imagine.
Reading the biography of Khadija and ar-Rumaisaa' one would
wish to be their servant, to carry their shoes, to wash their
clothes, to ...or to serve them in any possible way and get du`a
from them.
My dears we just don't know the great ones of this Ummah,
would we know them and follow them we would be in the forefront
of mankind ...
and as it is said "Iman (faith) is not by hope, it is rather
what occurs in the heart and is prooved by the deeds" [maa waqa`a
fil qalbi wa saddaqahul-`amal]
I leave you to think about this and pray to Allah to make us
all among the dwellers of Paradise and to bestow on us the faith
and the patience that lead us to Paradise. And to bless the
present Muslim Ummah with many women like the black woman may
Allah be pleased with her