The Effects of Clubbing
Quotes giving Islamic Perspective:
Jaabir (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the
Prophet (pbuh) said: “Whoever believes in Allah and the last
day, should not sit at a table where wine is being served.”
Ibnul Quayyim Al Jowziyyah refers to music which accompanies
dance as the “Qur`an of Shaytaan.”
Although the above quotes make it clear that, for Muslims,
being in an atmosphere where there is music and alcohol (i.e.
clubs) is haram, the statements will mean nothing to
non-Muslims. Thus, for the negativity of clubbing to be
portrayed to these people, it is only applicable that the
adverse consequences of alcohol, drugs, and free mixing in
certain environments, be portrayed.
Why do we go clubbing?
Clubbing is a major part of Western society, attracting
people of all ages, cultures, religions etc. In some areas,
there are Muslims who go clubbing, ignorant of the Islamic
ruling on public displays of dancing.
The non-Muslims go to clubs for a “good time.” This
definition, usually, encompasses getting pissed, pulling and
getting laid. This is the basis for some Muslims to
participate in such activities.
The Prophet (pbuh) said in an authentic narration:
“You will surely follow in the ways of those before you
(Jews and Christians), inch by inch and step by step, so much
so that if they were to enter a lizards hole, you would follow
after them.”
It is easy to see the attraction of night-clubs: music,
bright lights, free mixing and for those who drink, alcohol
promos. The environment is hyped to such an extent that it is
only inevitable for the individual to practically become
addicted to the whole club scene.
So what goes on?
With the frantic atmosphere created by loud music, alcohol,
availability of drugs, and free mixing, it is easy to lose ones
state of mind. A person can be forced into situations that
normally would be unthinkable to him/her. Peer pressure also
has a role to play. No one clubs alone; there is usually a
group. For males, impressing mates is a number one priority, so
drinking alcohol in huge amounts, experimenting with drugs, and
pulling as many girls as possible is part and parcel of the
game. It does not matter what religion you are, what your
beliefs and morals are. You may be able to resist temptation
initially, but the more frequently your faced with an
environment where anything goes, your guard will fall.
The woman at these clubs are barely clothed, some
intoxicated, therefore vulnerable targets. There have been many
cases reported of attempted rapes, especially down south. In
fact, Brookside (channel 4 soap) has recently highlighted the
issue of rape at a party where there were drugs and alcohol
use.
People say “I’m not like that, I don’t do anything wrong
when I go clubbing…” But, if we think to ourselves, what are
the thoughts that go through our minds when we see a beautiful
woman? Nobodies perfect, it is only human instinct to be
attracted to the opposite sex (nowadays, even that’s
debatable). So why put ourselves in an environment where these
desires are only fuelled more, and could lead us to actions we
may later regret…It is surely the Shaytaans work:
“No one is safe from his bewitching except whomsoever
Allah wills. He makes good looking to him what harms him the
most, until he imagines that it is the most beneficial act for
himself. And he makes him flee from the most beneficial act
until he thinks it is something harmful to him.”
Consequences of Drug use:
One of the main “DANCE DRUGS” is ecstasy. It is an effective
stimulant, but also an effective killer. Overdosing can cause
blurred vision, cardiovascular collapse and respiratory
problems. So why is it so widely used in the club scene? What
benefits do people gain? Apart from energising the body for a
couple of hours, why risk your physical and mental well-being.
Surely, you are not in control of your actions while
intoxicated.
Extent people will go to!
This is not a huge problem for the non-Muslims, but it is
clearly evident for the Muslims in western society. The
majority of Muslim parents are opposed to their children being
out at late hours, especially in such environments. But, in
most cases the truth is concealed from them. Studying late, or
staying over at a friend’s house are common excuses. If this
does not work, sneaking out is also an option considered. Thus,
the consequences of clubbing are reflected greatly in society.
As far as non-Muslims are concerned, staying out till late, and
on a regular basis, has been the cause of many domestic feuds
between parents and kids.
Alternatives
For the Muslim, who would say, “I was only seeking
relaxation and entertainment”, is it not more feasible to
attain relaxation by standing up for Allah’s worship. Dancing
does not fit into the category of worship, although in certain
cases it is a religion for some people. The Insomnia song “God
Is a DJ” highlights this point.
The non-Muslim may still see nothing wrong with clubbing,
but just having fun. Some may even argue that it keeps them
fit, but this burning of calories may be counteracted via a few
vodkas, buds etc. Inevitably, it will be like walking up a
glass hill to convince the non-Muslim about the haramness of
clubbing, but alternatives such as aerobics, step classes etc
can be suggested (dancing to music, but in a more healthy
environment-a gym).
Regarding females, the dress issue must be greatly stressed.
Why do they wear such short skirts, and tight tops? Do they not
find it degrading? Or are they deliberately drawing attention
to their bodies. Do they not realise that there are people out
there who may get the wrong impression and try to take
advantage, especially if they are under influence of drugs and
alcohol (impaired perceptions, increased confidence =not scared
to pursue what they want). Thus, ask them: is it worth it?
Conclusions
Sadly, some people take their position on dancing from a
number of islamically invalid sources, most commonly the
Biblical verse:
“Let them praise his name in dance: Let them sing unto
him with the timbrel and harp.” Psalms, (149:3)
Who is being praised in a club?
Understandably, it all comes down to personal choice. We as
Muslims, can only point out the negativity in clubbing, but
then again we must reiterate that there are Muslims involved in
this lifestyle as well, and not just the non-Muslims.
The increasing number of such places will just add to the
problem further.
So, without coming across to the non-Muslims as if looking
down on them for clubbing, it is probably best to acknowledge
their reasons for going, and then explaining the bad things to
them (previously discussed).
As far as the free mixing is concerned, explanations should
be offered as to respect for woman, and how woman are respected
greatly in Islam (heaven is at the feet of your mother). Again,
non-Muslims will argue that it is only natural to talk to the
opposite sex. Thus, the point of decency in the conversation,
and a clean state of mind must be stressed.
Remember, it is harder to tell people what to think, but
easier to tell them what to think about. So, even if people are
not drastically affected, at least you have raised awareness to
the alcohol, drugs etc. problems.
This Islam awareness day, is an opportunity for us to
educate the non-Muslims, and ourselves as well. We should not
judge people as who are we to judge. Instead, we should listen
to people’s views and guide them towards the path of Allah (swt).
“When the believer sits in such gatherings it is as if
his heart dies from merely seeing what is going on and saying
anything about it, even if he himself does not partake of it.”