Recommendations for the Dying
1. The face of the dying person
is to be directed toward Qiblah by turning the person on his
side. If it is difficult, he should be left dying flat on his
back, with legs towards Qiblah, and the head raised high, hence,
the face toward Qiblah.
2. The people around him should
recites the kalimah encouraging the dying person to do the same.
The Prophet (p) said: Advice the dying person to say, (There
is nothing worthy of worship except Allah) because a dying Muslim
who recites this will be saved from Hell.
3. The loved ones and friends
should pray that mercy and forgiveness and blessings of Allah be
given to the deceased.
4. It is recommended that his
friends and relatives should read Surah Yaseen (ch. 36) from the
Quran.
5. It is advised that people
around should talk about the mercy, blessings and forgiveness of
Allah. The dying person should have a pleasant feeling toward
Allah, hoping for the best to come for him.
6. A dying person should be
able to overcome the fear of death. This can be done when he sees
a good number of relatives and friends around him. During that
period, the dying experiences strange feelings and acute
understanding.
7. The dying person may wish to
talk to someone about what he is feeling. The presence of a
religious leader may be crucial for a peaceful death. He would
feel less lonely and more dignified.
8. The presence of loved ones,
friends, and religious leaders may give the dying person the
opprtunity to ask forgiveness from them. This will allow him to
feel less troubled and happier at the time of death.
9. Relatives should encourage
the dying person to make bequests and Sadaqah Jariyah.
10. It is advisable to treat
the departing person as a forerunner who is going ahead of us,
for we will all join him very soon.