Though she was even wealthier than other rich people, unlike
them, she always thought about helping the poor and sharing
their sorrow and difficulties, and solving their problems.
For this reason, Khadijeh (S.A.) ordered her servants to never
close the doors of her house to any poor person and to always
have ready at hand the things the poor needed. She commanded
her servants to inform her whenever a poor person wanted to
talk to her or wanted something from her during the day or
night. She could not bear the thought that a poor leaves her
house in sorrow, not having received something from her.
So
the deprived and poor knew the way to Khadijeh's house and
called that house, "The house of hope and security." More than
any other, the orphans sought refuge in her house, because
Khadijeh (S.A.) sympathized with them a lot and she would care
for them in a motherly way. So they called her "Ummul Yatama",
meaning, "The Mother of the Orphans".
Having talked about Khadijeh's (S.A.) house, the following
lines will help you gain a conception of her house.
The house where lived Khadijeh (S.A.) and from where she
performed all the benevolent tasks for the poor, was one of the
nicest in Mecca. It had two floors, each one of which was
decorated by a small balcony. The northern section of the house
so faced the Ka'aba (House of Allah) that the latter could be
seen from its small windows. In addition to this, the visitors
to Allah's house could be seen too. The windows of the other
three sides faced three of Mecca's roads and every passenger
entering Mecca could be seen from those windows. There was a
green dome at the top of the building, which made it look a
hundred times more beautiful. The interior of the house was
divided into two sections, one of which Khadijeh (S.A.) kept
for private usage and where no one was allowed without her
permission.
She chose the northern section of the house, which faced the
Ka'aba as her living quarters, and from there she stood in
front of the house of Allah and prayed to Him everyday.
The other section of Khadijeh's (S.A.) house was for the
guests. Special servants entertained the guests, looking after
their needs. Everybody was satisfied when they left Khadijeh's
house. This is why all the people living in the region would
call Khadijeh's house, "the house of generosity and kindness".
In hard times, people would go and come back, hands full and
happy. We can say that the section of Khadijeh's house open to
the public was home to many homeless, the poor, refugees,
orphans and the oppressed. If anyone was looking for shelter,
people would send him to Khadijeh's house.
A
famous writer described Khadijeh's house as follows:
"Every orphan who didn't have anyone to depend on,
Every father who couldn't get food for his children,
Every woman who was homeless,
Everybody who suffered and became shelter less,
All of them knew the way to Khadijeh's (S.A.) house and went
there.
They took refuge in her kindness and wealth.
The sore hearts of those people were treated with her favour
and grace."
This was why Khadijeh's house was always full of people. Whole
day and night, there were coming and going activities there.
Khadijeh (S.A.) would come to that section accessible to the
public a few hours everyday. She would sit with her poor and
homeless guests, talk and listen to their distress and
difficulties. She would caress the children and wipe the tears
of the mothers. Then she would call her private servant and he
would bring some bags of money. Khadijeh (S.A.) would then
distribute the money amongst the people.
Kind Khadijeh (S.A.) would always sit with the orphans at
dinner and eat with them. She would herself feed the delicious
food to them. She would place her hands around their faces,
caress and kiss them, saying: "My dear children! Don't feel
like orphans. (I am your mother). I will support and love you
like my own child."
Khadijeh's (S.A.) support and protection was not only for the
orphans who didn't have any parents, but also for those who had
parents. During those days, known as Al-Jahiliyya (The age of
Ignorance), some fathers who were narrow-minded and foolish
would bury their own daughters alive, for different foolish
reasons. They were proud of this ugly and indecent act. On
every opportunity, they would boast about what they had done.
However, they never thought about the day of Judgement and that
Allah will judge them:
"When the female (infant) who was buried alive will be asked
for what sin was she killed." (Al-Qur'an, 81:8-9)
During those days, this ugly and indecent act was common
amongst some Arab tribes. They would kill their innocent
daughters because of poverty and believed that having a
daughter is something to be ashamed of. They would cowardly
bury their daughters alive.
Then glowed the light of Islam forbidding such a practice.
Allah says in Al-Qur'an:
"And do not kill your children for fear of poverty; We give
them sustenance and yourselves (too); surely to kill them is a
great sin." (Al-Qur'an, 17:31)
As
a result, when some mothers gave birth to a girl, their
husbands would get angry at them. They either had to give their
daughter to their cruel husband, who was free to do whatever he
wanted to do to the innocent baby, or send the baby to
Khadijeh's (S.A.) house from where it could be supported and
saved from being buried alive. Now we are going to tell you one
of those stories.
One night, when darkness covered the region of the Hejaz
(Arabian Peninsula), the wealthy, who had no conscience, were
sleeping in their comfortable beds, putting their arrogant
heads on their comfortable pillows. They were sleeping
comfortably and never bothered about anyone or anything else as
they had everything in the world. Also money was always at
their disposal and they could do whatever they wished, even
irrational. They thought that as long as the earth exists, they
would have power.
On
the same night, the poor and helpless people were sleeping in
their dirty houses or beside the walls of some rich person's
house in the city or in Khadijeh's (S.A.) house and they would
try to forget all about their sorrow and misery, at least for
that night.
During this dark night, the stars and moon were hiding behind
the dark clouds. Not willing to see the prejudice and
inequality amongst the human beings, they had stopped shining.
On
that night, everybody was asleep except Khadijeh (S.A.) and her
special servant and............
Khadijeh (S.A.) was thinking in her private room. She was
swimming in the sea of dreams and had surrounded herself with
the turbulent waves of her thoughts.
Then suddenly someone knocked at her door. Khadijeh (S.A.),
still dreaming, lifted her head and asked: "Who is it?" Someone
answered: "It is me, my lady, Maysareh." Khadijeh (S.A.)
replied: "Come in! I am awake. I can't sleep tonight." The door
opened and Khadijeh's special servant, Maysareh, rushed into
the room, all confused.
Maysareh said: "As Salaamu Alaikum, my lady, I am sorry if I am
bothering you."
Khadijeh (S.A.) replied: "Wa Alaikum Salaam. What is wrong,
Maysareh? I see that you are worried. Has something happened
or...?" Maysareh answered: "No, no! Don't worry. You yourself
said that we should tell you whenever an indigent, helpless or
an oppressed person wanted to see you."
Khadijeh (S.A.) said: "Yes, yes. I myself said that. Now what
has happened and who wants to see me and why?" Maysareh
answered: "My lady, a young woman carrying a heavy sack has
come to the house. She was shaking and crying and her hair was
untidy. She begged me to bring her to you. It seems that she
came here because she is afraid and depressed."
Khadijeh (S.A.) answered; "Very well. There is no problem. Tell
her to come in. I myself told you to call me anytime, day or
night if any helpless or homeless person wanted to see me.
Don't let that person leave this house in sadness or with empty
hands".
Maysareh went to call the young woman to take her to Khadijeh's
room.
Khadijeh (S.A.) started thinking about that young woman and she
told herself: "Oh Allah! What has happened to this poor woman
in the middle of the night? What kind of problem has she faced
that has caused her to leave her house alone at this time and
to come to my house? Who is this helpless woman? Where does she
come from? And why did she come here? Maybe she is a mother who
came here with her sick child so that we can provide food and
medicine for it.
"Maybe she is a slave who has come here because of her unjust
master. Or maybe she is a chaste woman whose house the street
ruffians entered by force to kill her husband or take her
innocent child. Maybe none of these, but maybe her cruel
husband wanted to take her innocent daughter away from her and
bury the girl alive under the cold dust of the desert. Maybe
for this reason, she took the baby and brought her here seeking
refuge in my house."
Many thoughts occupied the chaste mind of Khadijeh (S.A.) when
suddenly the door opened. A young woman, whose head and face
were covered with a veil, entered, crying. Tears had completely
wet her red and dusty cheeks. Her arms and legs were shaking
out of sorrow and she could only say: "As Salaamu Alaikum." She
then sat down on the floor and tried to kiss Khadijeh's feet,
but the latter stopped her and hugged her and kissed her face
like a kind mother. Khadijeh (S.A.) asked her: 'my daughter!
What has happened? Why are you so upset? Be sure that whatever
I can do I will do for you. Tell me, my daughter. Tell me what
has happened."
The young woman moved away from Khadijeh's embrace and opened
the heavy sack and placed it in front of Khadijeh (S.A.). She
removed a beautiful baby from it, which was like the blossom of
spring and hugged it.
After the young woman gave the baby many long and warm kisses
while still in tears, she placed the baby in front of Khadijeh
(S.A.) and said:
"Oh Lady of Quraish! Oh kind Khadijeh (S.A.) I beg you, please
have mercy upon my baby and me. Look how beautiful it is and
what beautiful black eyebrows it has. For the sake of Allah
look how it looks at me with its sweet eyes. See what a
beautiful smile it has. It seems that the baby understands what
I say because it looks at me this way. The baby knows that I
want to take it away from myself and give it to somebody else."
Then the young woman looked at the sky and said: "Oh Almighty
Allah! Save us from this insecure and ignorant situation and
from dirty deeds. Send us a savior who can stop this savage
situation and the cruel killings. What did this innocent baby
do that makes its father want to bury it alive with no fear?
What did I do wrong that I must give up my baby?
The woman prayed to Allah and then started crying even more.
The baby, afraid of her mother's cries started crying also.
Khadijeh (S.A.), who was quiet until this time, took the
woman's lovely baby and hugged it and sympathetically said to
the young woman: "My daughter! Don't worry. "I will keep and
protect your baby like my own daughter, I know how you feel now
and why you are so upset. I am a mother and I know the
heartache of mothers. I will raise her and whenever you want,
you can come here and see your baby."
The young woman said: "What if my husband comes and wants to
take her from you? He is an obstinate person. When I was
pregnant, he told me: 'If it is a boy, he is mine. If it is a
girl, it belongs to the grave.' He repeated this sentence
everyday to bother me.
"Today when I felt the pains of delivery, I took refuge in the
desert so I could deliver the baby. There, this beautiful girl
was born. I didn't return to the house because I knew if I took
it to the house, it would have meant the grave for it; as a
result, I came to your house because I knew that my daughter
would be protected here.
"Oh kind Khadijeh (S.A.)! We, the women of this region, know
you very well. We know that you protect the orphans better than
their parents, but I am still afraid that my angry husband may
come here and get the baby from you.
"He may even hurt me and kill me for having given the baby to
you. But it doesn't matter. Let him kill me but my daughter
will be alive."
The young woman uttered these words and fell down at Khadijeh's
(S.A.) feet and started crying very hard. Khadijeh (S.A.)
picked her up and placed her hand on the dusty hair of the
young woman and very kindly said: "My daughter! I told you not
to worry about your baby. I will raise her like my own baby and
I will never give her to your husband. He can't do anything
here. If he comes here, I will hide her. Be sure that your baby
is in a secure place. Now get up and rest a little bit. You
don't feel well. You have come a long way. Leave everything to
Allah because Allah is closer and kinder to a person than
anyone else."
After the young woman heard the kind words of Khadijeh (S.A.),
she went to a corner of the room and fell into a deep sleep.
The great Khadijeh (S.A.), whose pure spirit was shaken by the
recent incidents thought very hard about the things that the
young woman had told her. Then she asked herself: What is this
misfortune that is over coming the Arab fathers, that causes
them to become so cruel and conscienceless as to bury their
innocent babies alive with their own hands under tons of black
soil? Do they fear poverty or feel ashamed?
The Lady of Quraish kept thinking about this unfortunate
situation and deliberated as to how long this practice would
continue. Having pondered deeply, she started to pray and
commune with Allah. She said:
"Oh Allah! I swear by your Prophets and the people who are
close to You. I beg You to send the Saviour that Jesus and the
other Messengers have promised for these unfortunate and
ignorant people so that this ugly, and unfortunate situation
comes to an end. Only then would innocent mothers be able to
hold their unprotected and innocent babies in their arms."
After prayer, she went to sleep. She dreamt that the sun was
rising from the sky and turned several times around the house
of Allah. It then moved towards her house, where its huge
brightness dazzled her eyes.
She woke up and realized that the day of Islam was near