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A Visitor is not an Inspector
When you enter a home whether as a visitor or an overnight
guest; do not closely examine its contents as an inspector
would.
Limit your observation to what you need to see.
Do not open closed closets or
boxes. Do not inspect a wallet, a package, or a covered
object. This is against Islamic manners and an
impolite
betrayal of the
trust your host has accorded to you. Uphold these manners
during your visit and seek to cultivate your host's love and
respect, may Allah bless and protect you.
Imam al-Muhasibi in
Risalat al-Mustarshidin said:
"The
duty of sight is to preclude forbidden sights and not to try
to see what has been hidden or covered.
Likewise Dawud al-Tai'y said: 'I
was told
we would be
accountable for our minor gazes, as we are accountable for
our minor deeds.'"
The Arab poet, Miskin al-Darimi said:
My neighbour need not worry if
his door was not
closed
Source:
"Islamic Manners"
- Abdul Fattah Abu Ghudda, Vol
1, pp. 43-44 |