Hijaab A
Moment of Thought
By Dr Muhammed Ismail Memon Madani
As Muslims we should consider
the extent to which we actually follow the Holy Qur'aan in
which we profess to have such faith, and how much concern and
regard we sincerely have for its commandments. Could it be that
on the Day of Judgement, as according to the following verses
of the Holy Qur'aan, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
says to Allah (regarding us):
O Lord! My Ummah forsook this Qur'aan.... (25:30)
We believe in Allah and it is our belief that on the Day of
Judgement, we will all have to face Him and to be held
accountable for our each and every action. How then do we
expect to meet Him? Will He not say to us: I revealed to you
clearly all the etiquettes of living your lives and made clear
the differences between halaal and haraam.
How closely then did you follow my commands? How much did your
character, thoughts, and actions reflect the fear of
accountability before me?
On the Day of Judgement we will face our beloved Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam as well. With the sun unbearably
close over us, it will be a day of unimaginable difficulty,
torment and unendurable thirst. He will lead us all to the well
of Kawthar to drink. But have we ever thought of how we shall
face him? We, who have spent our whole lives ignoring his
teachings and never taking any steps to implement them in our
lives; how can we honestly expect him to quench our thirst with
his own blessed hands. How can we expect that he will intervene
on our behalf when we will meet him bent under the burden of
our sins? Have we followed his teachings in our lifestyle, our
appearance, our manner of dressing, or in anything else in our
lives?
The commandments of hijaab are of great importance. Though it
is true that they are in fact somewhat difficult to follow. But
one thing is true beyond doubt, and that is whosoever succeeds
in following these commandments will have less difficulty in
obeying other commandments of Allah sub'haanahu wa ta'aalaa.
This is the most bitter pill to swallow, in terms of obedience,
but it is most beneficial in that it makes it quick and easy
for a Muslim to be close to Allah.
Today, our standards of piety have become limited to reciting
endless incantations and rosaries, praying extra Salaat,
reciting the books of prayers, fasting when possible, giving
alms and charity and obeying those commands which may be
followed with ease. But we readily ignore and reject all those
rules and prohibitions which interfere in any way with our
lifestyle, nafs and desires. We profess deep love for Allah,
but do not refrain from disobeying Him, even though it is
obligatory on us to refrain from all that He has declared
haraam. The foundation of piety is built on seeking Allah's
forgiveness for all our disobedience and rebelliousness against
Him. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam has said,
"Refrain from sinning and you will become the most pious of
worshippers."
The sin of refusing to observe hijaab is more severe than other
sins, which is why it is critical to immediately desist from it
and to sincerely resolve not to repeat it. The reasons for this
are as follows:
1. It is a sin which is committed in the open for all to see.
The one committing this sin, without saying a word, is openly
declaring to everyone that she/he has no regard for Allah's
commands, and that she/he has revolted against Allah
sub'haanahu wa ta'aalaa. Our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
has said:
"All of my ummah is
worthy of forgiveness, except those who have openly sinned."
This is true not only for religion, but even under the laws of
any government of this world, those who openly betray their
governments are not forgiven, and what is the punishment for
betrayal, but death?
2. The sinful consequences of refusing to observe hijaab are
not limited only to the one committing this sin; since it
encourages and spreads lewd and shameful behaviour, it
ultimately affects the entire society which thus gets caught in
Allah's punishment in this world and in the hereafter. It is
commonly observed that such a sin also paves the way for all
kinds of other mischiefs, even murder. Those women who do not
observe purdah should ask themselves why are they doing so. Is
it the temporary pleasures and fulfilment of desires which is
keeping them from it? They should realize that life in this
world is short while life in the hereafter is forever. They
should also realize that by not observing hijaab they are
embittering their lives here as well as condemning themselves
to the punishment of hellfire in the hereafter. We are not able
to bear, even for a second, the heat of a burning coal placed
on the palm of our hand. And yet we never think, how will we be
able to bear the severe torment and fires of hell? If we worry
that our father or husband or other relatives will not approve
and will be displeased with our following Allah's commands,
then we should also think whether this will be an acceptable
excuse to present to Allah sub'haanahu wa ta'aalaa on the Day
of Judgement. Will He forgive us if we say that we did not
follow His orders because we feared displeasing our family and
friends. Even though it is Allah's absolute and unalterable law
that 'obeying anyone while disobeying Allah sub'haanahu wa
ta'aalaa is forbidden'. That is, if someone asks us to disobey
Allah, we are forbidden to obey him. We should simply cast this
person aside. We should consider whether this person whom we
are pleasing by disobeying Allah sub'haanahu wa ta'aalaa will
be willing to receive and bear the punishment in our place on
the Day of Judgement? Allah sub'haanahu wa ta'aalaa clearly
states in the Holy Qur'aan:
Then would those who are followed clear themselves of
those who follow (them); they would see the penalty and all
relations between them would be cut off. And those who followed
would say: "If only we had one more chance we would clear
ourselves of them as they have cleared themselves of us." Thus
will Allah show them ( the fruits of) their deeds as (nothing
but) regrets nor will there be a way for them out of the fire.
(2:166-167)
Ponder on this verse, and it becomes clear that on the Day of
Judgement, those people who disregarded the commands of Allah
and disobeyed Him to follow and please others, will be enemies
unto each other and all relations between them will be severed.
On that day, the young will blame their elders for not letting
them obey Allah and observe hijaab, while the elders will say
that they had no control over them, they only asked them to
disobey, but did not force them. Then, how frustrated and
helpless will those feel who had disobeyed Allah to please
others around them. How sorry and miserable will those feel
when they realize that the people they had tried to please and
on whose account they were to endure such grave punishment,
were denying all responsibility for their wrongdoing and were
accusing them of being guilty instead. Let alone men, even
Shaytaan, on the Day of Judgement, will say:
And Shaytaan will say when the matter is decided: It was Allah
Who gave you a promise of truth: I too promised but I failed in
my promise to you. I had no authority over you except to call
you but you listened to me: then reproach me not, but reproach
your own souls. I cannot listen to your cries nor can you
listen to mine. I reject your former act in associating me with
Allah. For wrongdoers there must be a Grievous Penalty. (14:22)
So, we know that on this day no one will come to anyone else's
aid, and every human being will be left alone to answer for his
own deeds. Even the Shaytaan will say to those who followed
him: "I had no real power over you, all I could do was to tempt
and preach you; You chose to follow me and committed sins of
your own free will. I am disgusted with you for associating me
with Allah and obeying me in His stead. You were with me in
life, and you will be with me now. We will go to hell and abide
there together." For the sake of Allah, think! Is the goal in
life to gain Allah's pleasure, or the pleasure of a few
relatives? By Allah, those who sever their worldly relations in
this life for the sake of Allah, will attain heaven right here
on earth. He, who turned away from people and cut his relations
with them solely to gain Allah's pleasure and to avoid
punishment in his final and everlasting abode in the hereafter,
has attained true success. He will be rewarded with such joy
and pleasure that all the joys of this world will seem
insignificant and worthless by comparison. As a poet has said:
You shouldn't care if the entire world is unhappy with you; As
long as your beloved is pleased with you; Keep this in mind as
you decide; What should you do and what shouldn't you do.
Let us pray to Allah sub'haanahu wa ta'aalaa to grant us great
courage and fortitude, to bless us with complete Imaan,
unwavering trust and belief in the Holy Qur'aan, and the
ability to obey his commandments as they should be obeyed. May
Allah shower salaat and salaam in great abundance, on our
beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam, the best of
creation, and upon his family and his companions.