LOVE
It's that
feeling, that nobody could explain cause it different ppl have
different experiences in this regard.
Love just
not happens at a sight. It is a horizon and every horizon have
a fall, so love travels through seven stages.
ATTRACTION:
First of
all see someone, you meet hundred of new people in your daily
life. The first stage is attraction that something appeal you,
looks twice; a person attracts you.
INFATUATION
then that
person infatuates you. You start admitting it to yourself, that
you like him/her, you ask yourself that what does that person
means to you why you want to see him/her, why you adore his/her
voice, why you get excited, when the attracted person looked at
you, even a general look makes your heart bloom.
COMMUNION:
Then the
third stage comes, when you admit it infront of that person,
you introduce yourself like HI! I have noticed you around, I
found you to be very attractive would you like to spend
sometime with me or you started becoming closer to that person
, so that he/she can notice you and you start chatting.
INTIMACY:
A very
famous song is "eveybody is looking for intimacy", that is deep
friendship. Your communion stage is over & you both
become necessary for each other to share, are the ideas and
thoughts of each other, you have started thinking on the same
levels that other person is thinking.
SURRENDER:
Then after
coming or passing through the intimacy stage, your love enters
in deliver our stage i.e. surrender, you surrender yourself to
that person, yes I am in love with that person.
PASSION:
Once you
surrender, your loved one becomes passion for you. You want
that person like anything; you adore & can't escape the
thoughts about him/her you become passionate.
ECSTASY:
Last but
not the least is the stage when you have strong feelings or
agitation i.e. ecstasy, thinking about one thing & that's the
person, your all thoughts starts & finishes with that person.
Here you decide that you can't live without that person. So you
got or you lose.
The most
interesting thing i find out after reading this love horizon is
the end. Now you read it
THE END
In the end, if you got
them... you lose the charm and if you lose... you lost yourself