Your lOve style was developed very early in life, and was
influenced by a multitude of negative and positive experiences.
Without exception, no two styles of loving are exactly alike.
While genuine love can only be demonstrated in behavior, there
are many different ways of showing love.
RoOmantic
LOve Style: They believe in love at first sight,
and that if love is true, it will overcome every obstacle. A
romantic's love relationships are based on very little factual
information, and usually end with shocking surprises and
disappointments. Romance enriches life, and the romantics of the
world have created great literature, monumental works of art, and
spark a constant rediscovery of life and love.
Dependent LOve Style:
Dependent lovers make their partners the center of the
universe. Dependents are very jealous and have an insatiable need
for constant attention, reassurance and affection. Typically this
style will assume a passive role and allow the partner to decide
where they should live, friends, etc. Yet they are consistently
caring and supportive of the people they love and can suffer
anything for them.These ones are usually proved lucky ones for
there partners.
God-Centered
LOve Style: These lovers place God above everything
else. A partner must have a personal connection with God to be an
acceptable mate. Principles related to health, communication,
sex, divorce, parenting and gender roles are lived according to
the scriptures. Adherence to religious guidelines is mandatory.
These lovers function best under traditional structures.
Best-Friends
LOve Style: Best friend styles prefer to relate to
their partners as equals, enjoying mutual support, companionship,
sharing secrets and laughter. They have usually known and
interacted with each other for years before realizing they were
in love. Their compatibility is easy and stressless. Their
conflicts rarely involve infidelity; more often they are about
outside friendships.
Practical
LOve Style: Practical lovers pride themselves on
their ability to live comfortably on a small budget. They are
very private people and tend to be disciplined, peaceful and well
organized. They like partners who are self-sufficient and not
overly needy. Mates are chosen by how they will affect their
career and future security. These types often fail to communicate
plans, thoughts and ideas to their partners.
COmprOmise
LOve Style: Compromise styles usually attempt to
make the best out of life's circumstances without protest. They
go with the flow, and consider compatibility more of a mutual
adjustment than a zodiac birthright. They'd rather have a
dependable partner than a romantic or attractive one. They
believe that romantic love is overrated, and that true love takes
time to develop. They will often settle for partners that are not
their equal.
Ideal LOve
Style: Ideal lovers could never love anyone they
would not consider a suitable partner. They know exactly what
they are looking for, and will wait for the one who meets most,
if not all of their requirements. They base their partner
selection on reality, instead of potential (which is much too
unpredictable). They tend to be described as "stuck up" and have
great difficulty with frustration and rejection. They will call
it "quits" in a heartbeat.
UncOnditiOnal LOve Style: Unconditional lovers do
not need a partner to return their affection in the same ways as
it is given, or to the same extent. This style is
self-sacrificing and believes it is better to give than to
receive. They often play the role of martyr "there is nothing you
could do to make me stop loving you." These partners often lack
self-worth and self-love. People with this love style are
basically parental in nature and live their live through their
partner's.
Sexual LOve
Style: Sexual lovers value sexual satisfaction
above all other types of sharing. If sexual satisfaction is
maintained by their partner, any other relationship conflict can
be more easily tolerated and solved. At the first touch of their
partner's hand, this style can tell whether love is a
possibility. This type uses sex as a general cure-all for
relationship partners, using sex as a substitute for talking and
problem solving. When angry, they will most likely withhold sex
as "punishment."
Game Playing
LOve Style: Game players enjoy searching for truth
in their partners. They pry and shake partners to see how they
stand up to crises. They prefer partners with a developed sense
of humor. Compatible partners must be intelligent, resilient and
able to handle the unexpected. They seek a worthy opponent in
this game of life, in which everyone participates. They don't
trust others and are generally unethical opportunists.
Self-Centered LOve Style: Self-centered lovers tend
to avoid intense expressions of love. They shy away from love,
because love translates into being responsible for others. They
are very guarded about personal freedom and put their needs
before their partners. They make few demands on their partner and
don't appreciate the partner making any on them. They are too
self-centered to keep commitments; they can only give love if
they initiate it and NOT if it is demanded of them.
Status-Seeking LOve Style: Status seeking lovers
are conscious of social rank and standing. They enjoy being on
center stage, and detest the average or typical. They are
trendsetters, attracted to high achievers with social status and
notoriety. Their partner's physical attractiveness is also very
important to them. Their focus on achieving social status and
approval alienates them from others and creates many secret
enemies.
TraditiOnal
LOve Style: Traditional lovers seek partners who
can affirm and assist them in satisfying their socialized needs
as males and females. They are monogamous and committed to the
institution of marriage. Sharing a home and rearing children is
key. They expect men to act like men, and women to act like
women. Difficulty and frustration can follow if you step outside
the boundaries of their traditional social roles.
COnsciOusness-Expanding LOve Style: These lovers
are drawn to partners with beliefs and lifestyles, which enhance
and expand their self-awareness and knowledge. This attraction is
not only an intellectual or pleasure-seeking pursuit. It is a
reality-based partnership with the primary purpose of sharing
uplifting experiences. They are often moody and over committed.
Their relationships suffer because they get so "caught up" in
their projects and ideas.