About Love ------

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
 


If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honoured that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift  you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

 
 
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
 
 
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time
 
 
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift,
and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away
 
 
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if
it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there  is nothing you should do.
 
 
Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.