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The Superior Morality and Habits
of Sayyidina Muhammad
Fifty of the moral characteristics and habits of Hadrat Muhammad (Sallallahu
Ta’ala ‘alayhi wa Sallam) have been listed below:
1- The knowledge, religiosity, culture, understanding, wisdom, certainty,
intelligence, generosity, modesty, mildness, compassion, patience, zeal,
patriotism, loyalty, trust, bravery, majesty, eloquence, courage, beauty, fear
of Allah, chastity, kindness, pity, shame, and piety of Muhammad (Sallallahu
Ta’ala ‘alayhi wa Sallam) were much greater than that found in other prophets.
He used to pardon both his friends and enemies who hurt him. He would never
scold them. In the battle of Uhud, he prayed for those disbelievers who caused
his blessed cheek to bleed and broke his blessed teeth, saying: "O! My Allah!
Forgive them for they are ignorant."
2- He was very compassionate. He used to water animals by holding up a
bucket of water; he used to wait until they had enough. He used to wipe the
face and eyes of the horse he rode.
3- Whenever he was called, he used to respond by saying "lebbeik" (sir!).
He never used to stretch his legs among others. He used to sit on his knees.
When he saw somebody walking while he was riding on an animal, he used to give
him a ride.
4- He never considered himself superior to any one. While traveling they
wanted to cook some lamb. One of them offered to sacrifice a sheep. Another
one offered to skin it. And one of them offered to cook it. Rasulullah (‘Sallallahu
‘alayhi wa sallam) said he would gather some firewood. They told him: "O
Rasulullah! Please, be seated. We shall do that." He responded to them by
saying: "Yes! I know you are ready to do everything. But I do not like sitting
separated from those working. Allahu ta’ala does not like the one sitting
apart from his friends." He stood up and went off to gather firewood.
5- When he went to his Companions (radi-Allahu ta’ala anhum ejmaeen) he
never used to sit in the front line. He used to sit wherever he saw an empty
seat. While he was out walking with a cane in his hand, those who saw him
stood up. He said to them: "Do not stand up for me as you do for others to
show respect. I’m a man like you. I eat food like everybody else. I sit down
when I get tired."
6- Mostly, he used to sit on his knees. He was also seen sitting down with
his knees up while embracing them with his arms. He never used to distinguish
himself from his servants when getting food, clothes or something else. He
used to help his servants with their work. He was never seen swearing at or
beating on anybody. Anas bin Malik, who continuously served him, said: "I was
in the service of Rasulullah for ten years. He served me more than I served
him. He has never been angry with me. He never treated me harshly."
7- He used to repair the rips in his own clothes, milk his own sheep and
feed his own animals. He used to take home the things that he bought from the
bazar by himself. During journeys, he used to feed his animals and sometimes
he used to groom them, too. Sometimes, these things used to be done by him
only; at other times he used to help his servants with these chores.
8- When he was called by someone else’s servant, in accordance with the
customs of Medina, he used to walk with that servant hand in hand.
9- He used to visit patients and attended their funerals. To make them
happy, he also used to visit the patients who were disbelievers and
hypocrites.
10- After he had conducted the morning prayer in the mosque, facing his
Sahabas, he used to say: "Is there any brother who is sick? If so, let’s pay
him a visit." Then, he used to ask: "Did anybody die? If so, let’s go to help
them." Then, he used to say: "Did any of you have a dream? Let’s listen to him
and interpret it." If somebody died, he used to help wash and shroud the
corpse, conduct the funeral prayer and go to the cemetery.
11- Whomever of his Sahabas he did not see for three days, he used to ask
about. If that person went out on a journey he used to pray for him, or if he
were in town he used to visit him.
12- He always initiated greeting the man he met on his way.
13- He used to ride on camels, mules, donkeys, and sometimes he used to
make someone sit behind him.
14- He used to serve his visitors and his Companions and declared: "The
dearest one in a society is the one who always serves others."
15- Nobody saw him laughing loudly. He used to smile slightly. Sometimes
his blessed front teeth were seen while he was laughing.
16- He was always seen worried and thoughtful. He used to talk very
little. He used to begin a speech by smiling.
17- He never used to say anything useless or unnecessary. In case of
necessity, he used to speak briefly and clearly. Sometimes, he used to repeat
his word three times so as to be understood very well.
18- He used to joke with foreigners, the people he knew previously,
children, old women and the women who were "mahrem" (those he could never
marry). But, no situation ever caused him to forget Allahu ta’ala, even for a
moment.
19- Nobody was able to look at his face directly because of his majesty.
If someone looked at his blessed face, they would begin to sweat. In reaction,
he used to say: "Do not straighten yourself! I am not a king. I am not cruel.
I am the son of a woman who ate dried meat." Then having lost his fear, the
man would explain his problem.
20- He had no guards or janitors. Everybody could easily come to him and
reveal their problems.
21- He was a very bashful person. He used to feel embarrassed looking into
the face of a person he was talking to.
22- He never exposed someone’s fault to his face. He never complained
about or backbit anybody. Whenever he did not like somebody’s words or
behavior he used to say: "I wonder why some people behave like that."
23- Even though he was the beloved, the messenger and the favorite of
Allahu ta’ala, he would say: "Among you I am the person who has understood
Allahu ta’ala the best and fear Him the most. If you had seen what I saw, you
would laugh less and cry more." Whenever he saw a cloud in the sky, he would
say: "O! My Allah! Do not kill us with your wrath; do not destroy us with your
torment; grant us good health." While he was beginning his prayers, a kind of
sound, like the sighing of a child would be heard from his chest. This also
happened while he was reading the Qur’an al-karim.
24- His heart was amazingly powerful and brave. In the Hunain War, most of
the Muslim soldiers had gone to seize the war booty. Consequently, he was left
with only a few soldiers. At that moment, the disbelievers attacked suddenly.
Rasulullah (Sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) resisted and routed them. This
happened several times. He never retreated.
25- In the third chapter, at the end of the second section of the
Mawahib-i Ladunniyya, it was stated that Abdullah Ibni ‘Umar said that he had
never seen a more powerful wrestler than Fakhri Kainat. Ibni Ishaq stated that
a shepherd among the disbelievers called Rugane was a great wrestler. He came
across with Rasulullah at the outskirts of the city. "O Rugane Why don’t you
become Muslim?" Rasulullah declared. Rugane asked him if there was any proof
to show his being a Prophet. Rasulullah declared, "We will wrestle. If you are
beaten, will you have iman?" He said, "Yes, I will have iman." At the very
beginning, Rugane was beaten, he was perplexed. He said, "This should not be
the case, let us try it once again." Thus, he was beaten three times. At the
beginning of the third chapter of Shawahid-un Nubuwwa, it was stated: "I had
no intention to have iman. I never thought that I would be beaten." He said,
"Now, I am perplexed to learn that you are more powerful than me and I respect
this very much." He gifted half of his herd to Rasulullah and he left. While
Rasulallah was going with the flock towards Mecca, Rugane ran after him and
said,
- "O Muhammad! If the people of Mecca asked you where you found this herd,
how would you answer?"
- "I would say that Rugane gave them as a gift," he said.
- "If they asked you why he gave them as gift?"
- "I would say, I wrestled with him. I had beaten him. He appreciated my
strength and he gave it as a gift."
- "Please don’t say that. My fame and honor will disappear. You had better
say, My words pleased him and he gave them as a gift."
- "I promised my Rabb not to say any lie," he said.
- "Then I will take the heard back," he said.
- "It is up to you! One thousand herds could be sacrificed for the sake of
my Rabb."
Rugane fell in love with Rasulallah’s iman and honesty. He immediately
became a Muslim by saying Kalima-i Shahadat.
There was another wrestler called Aswad-il Jumahi. When he stood on the
skin of an ox, ten strong men could not move the skin after pulling it from
different directions, and the skin would tear into pieces but he would remain
standing. He also said he would have iman if Rasulullah beats him. He was
beaten but did not have iman.
26- He was very generous. He gave away hundreds of camels, sheep, and he
never left anything for himself. Innumerable hardhearted disbelievers were
converted to Islam after seeing his generosity.
27- When someone wanted something from him, he never said, "I do not have
it." He would give it, if he had it. If not, he remained silent.
28- Even though Allahu ta’ala had declared to him: "I shall give you
whatever you want," he never wanted worldly fortune. Never did he eat bread
made of sifted wheat flour. He always ate bread made of unsifted barley flour.
He never ate enough food to be full. He ate bread without anything, or with
dates, fruit, vinegar, soup, or bread dipped into olive oil. He also ate
chicken, rabbit, camel, gazelle, fish, dried salted meat and cheese. He liked
the leg side of meat. He bit into the meat while holding it with his hands.
[It is permissible to eat meat with a knife.] He usually ate dates and drank
milk. His family spent times at home without cooking any food or baking any
bread for two or three months. During this time they would only eat dates. It
was also witnessed that he would eat nothing for two or three days. When he
died, it was found out that his iron armored jacket had been pawned to a Jew
for 30 (thirty) kilos of wheat.
29- Nobody ever heard from him the words: "I do not like this food." He
ate the food he liked and did not eat the food he did not like.
30- He ate once a day, either in the morning or in the evening. When he
came home, he used to ask: "Is there anything to eat?" If there were nothing,
he fasted. He ate his meals on the floor without a table, table cloth, tray or
anything like them. While eating he sat on his knees, without leaning on
anything. He began eating after reciting. ‘Basmala’ (in the name of Allah). He
ate with his right hand.
31- Sometimes, he put aside enough dates and barley for his nine wives and
few servants to last them for a year. He also gave alms to the poor from these
dates and barley.
32- Among foods, he liked mutton, broth, pumpkins, sweet things, honey,
dates, milk, cream, melons, grapes and cucumbers. He also liked cold water.
33- He used to drink water slowly, starting with Allah’s name (Basmala),
stopping with three pauses in between, and in the end he used to say "Alhamdulillah"
(all praise to Allah) and then pray.
34- As the other Prophets did, he never accepted any goods of zakat
(charity) or any alms, but he accepted presents. He usually gave something in
return for the presents.
35- He wore everything that was divinely sanctioned. He covered himself
with seamless garments made of thick material similar to a wrapper (ihram). He
wrapped himself with a large cloth and also wore a shirt and robe. These were
woven from cotton, wool and animal hair. He usually wore white garments, but
sometimes green ones. He rarely wore things that had been sewn. On Fridays, on
religious holidays (Iyd), in the time of war, and when foreign missions came,
he wore precious shirts and robes. The color of his garments was mostly white.
His clothes were long enough to cover his blessed wrists and shanks.
In his book entitled Shamail-i Sharifa, Imam-i Tirmuzi (rahima-hullahu
ta’ala) says: "Rasulullah liked to wear a Qamis, that is, a kind of shirt. The
sleeves of his shirts were long enough to cover his wrists. There were no
buttons on the collars or on the wristbands of his shirts. His shoes were made
of animal skins and they had one leather collar and two qoobals on them. A "qoobal"
is a strap sewn on the leather collar and on the front tip of the shoe from
both ends. It passes between two toes. Local customs are followed in wearing
clothes and shoes. Deviating from local customs causes notoriety. It is
necessary to avoid notoriety. When he entered Mecca, he was wearing a black
turban on his head."
36- He usually wrapped his head with a black muslin, but mostly with a
white one, and allowed its one end to come one span down his back. His turban
was neither long nor short. Its length was nearly three meters. He used to
wrap his turban without a skullcap. Sometimes he wore a white skullcap without
a turban.
37- Having adapted himself to the customs in Arabia, he allowed his hair
to grow half way down his ears, but he did not let it grow any longer. He
rubbed a kind of oil on his hair. Even while traveling, he carried a bottle of
oil for that purpose. When he rubbed oil on his hair, he used to put on the
muslin first, and then wear his head-covering over it. Sometimes when his hair
was long, he plaited it, letting the plaits dangle from the sides. On the day
he conquered Mecca, he had two braids of hair.
38- He used to rub musk or other perfumes on his face, head and hands, and
was often scented with aloe wood and the spirits of camphor.
39- His bed was made of leather and full of date filler. Once, he was
given a bed that was full of wool, he did not accept it and said: "O! Aisha! I
swear by Allah that if I wanted, Allahu ta’ala would make gold and silver
piles available for me in every place." He Sometimes slept on a mat, on wood,
in a bed, on felt woven from wool, or out on the dry soil.
Ibni Abidin (rahima-hullahu ta’ala) says: "Those things that used to be
done continuously by Rasulullah and by his four Khalifates are called "Sunnat."
It is makruh to leave "Sunnat-i Huda." To leave "Sunnat-i Zaida" is not makruh."
In his book, entitled Hadiqa, Abdulgani Nabulusi (49) (rahimahullahu
ta’ala) says: "If Rasulullah (Sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) was not offended
by those people who left the things done by him with the intention of
worshipping, then those kinds of worships are called ‘Sunnat-i Huda.’ The
things which were always done by Rasulullah with the intention of worshipping
are called ‘Sunnat-i muakkada.’ The things done by Rasulullah habitually are
called ‘Sunnat-i zaida’ or ‘Mustahab.’ Beginning from the right side when
doing good works, and using the right hand for them, the things done or used
by Rasulullah in building, eating, drinking, sitting, getting up, going to
bed, while wearing clothes, while using tools and so on are mustahab. It is
not a cause for perdition or punishment to follow the ‘habitual bidats,’ such
as using a sieve for flour and spoons, which appeared later. That is, doing
the habitual bidats and not to follow the sunnat-i zaida (mustahab) is not
sinful for a Muslim." Thus, it is understood that it is permissible to eat at
the table; to use forks or spoons; to sleep on a bedstead, to use a radio,
television, or tape-recorder in a conference during the moral and science
lessons in school; to use every means of transportation; and to make use of
scientific productions, such as calculators and glasses. This is so because
these are customary bidats. Those things that appeared later are called "bidat."
Of course, it is sinful to use customary bidats and the newly discovered
things for evil purposes. A very vast amount of information relevant to this
subject of using a radio, loudspeaker, or tape recorder in mosques for
performing prayers, in calling the adhan, in preaching and khutbas is given in
the books Endless Bliss and Islam Ahlaki. Performing bidat in acts of worship,
that is, to make a slight change in the Prophet’s way of worshipping is a
mortal sin. It is an act of worship for the government and the army to fight
against their enemies. Therefore, surely it is not bidat to use every kind of
scientific production in war. On the contrary, it is a great blessing. We,
Muslims, have been ordered to use every kind of useful scientific products in
war. It is necessary to make useful things which will be helpful in
worshipping Allahu ta’ala. But, of course, those new products which facilitate
committing sinful acts are bidat. For example, it is necessary to go up to the
top of the minaret to recite the adhan (Muslim call to prayer). This is
because it was ordered to be recited in a high place. Therefore, it is also
bidat to recite the adhan with a loudspeaker. Permission was not given to
recite it with an instrument. Furthermore, it was ordered to be recited by a
man. In order to inform the people of their prayer times or the times of any
ibadat (worship), it has been forbidden in Islam to use any musical
instruments, such as sounding a trumpet or ringing a bell.
40- He never used to let his beard grow longer than a handful. He used to
cut the hair longer than a handful with scissors. [It is sunnat to let the
beard grow as long as a handful. It is wajib for a Muslim to grow a beard when
he is living in a place where they customarily have beards. Cutting the hair
longer than a handful is sunnat (a custom of the Prophet). Keeping the beard
shorter than a handful is bidat. If the beard is shorter than a handful, then,
it is wajib to lengthen it as long as a handful. It is makruh to shave. But if
you have an excuse, shaving is not makruh.]
41- He used to tinge his eyes with stibium three times every night.
42- He used to have a comb, mirror, a box for stibium, miswak (natural
toothbrush), scissors, sewing needle and thread in his house. He used to take
them with him when traveling.
43- He preferred beginning from the right side and using his right hand.
He only used his left hand to wash after a stool.
44- As far as possible, he did his jobs using odd numbers.
45- After the night prayer, he slept until midnight, then, he worshipped
until the morning prayer. He would sleep on his right side and put his right
hand under his right cheek and then recite some chapters of the Qur’an before
falling asleep.
46- He assumed "tefe’ul." In other words, he considered a good omen
whatever he saw first or suddenly. Nothing was unlucky for him.
47- When he was sorrowful he would grasp his beard and think upon the
matter.
48- When he had trouble, he preferred performing salat at once. The
enjoyment and pleasure of prayer caused him to lose any sense of sorrow.
49- He never listened to a person backbiting, that is, the one speaking
slanderously about an absent person.
50- While he was walking along the street, if he felt it necessary to look
around, he would turn his whole body and not just his head.
WARNING: All of the above-mentioned things done by the Prophet of Allahu
ta’ala (Sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) have been classified into three groups
by Islamic scholars (rahima humullahu ta’ala). The first group contains the
things that are necessary for every Muslim to do. These are called "sunnat."
The things that were peculiar to the Prophet only (Sallallahu Ta’ala ‘alayhi
wa Sallam) make up the second group. Others are not permitted to do these.
These are called Hasais. The third group consists of those things which depend
on customs. Every Muslim must do these by adapting himself to the customs of
the place he is living in. If a Muslim does not follow these customs, fitna
(discord and trouble) may possibly arise. Awakening fitna is haram
(prohibited).
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