Woman in Islam
The role of women in Islam has
been misunderstood in the West because of general ignorance of
the Islamic system and way of life as a whole, and because of
the distortions of the media.
The Muslim woman is accorded full
spiritual and intellectual equality with man, and is encouraged
to practice her religion and develop her intellectual faculties
throughout her life. In her relations with men both are to
observe modesty of behavior and dress and a strict code of
morality which discourages unnecessary mixing of the sexes. Her
relations with her husband should be based on mutual love and
compassion. He is responsible for the maintenance of the wife
and children, and she is to give him the respect due to the
head of the family. She is responsible for the care of home and
the children's early training. She may own her own property,
run her own business and inherit in her own right.
She may not be married without being
consulted and is able to obtain divorce. The system of limited
polygamy can be seen to have its uses which may be in the
interests of women as well as men. Finally she can look forward
to an old age in which she is respected and shown every care by
her children and by the society as a whole.
It would appear therefore that the
Islamic system has achieved the right mixture of freedom and
security that women seek and that is in the interest of the
society as a whole. [As I mentioned at the start of this
paper,] I have given the relevant quotations directly from the
Qur'an and hadith since these are obviously the most authentic
sources. If at different times and in different places these
principles and laws have sometimes been distorted, ignored or
flouted, it is not the principles and laws which are at fault,
but man's selfishness which sometimes leads them to distort,
ignore and flout what they do not like, and turn aside from the
truth.
Fortunately no one has changed or can
change the words of the Qur'an, and the regulations for the
protection of women which were revealed in the 7th century can
be easily verified by anyone in the 20th century, as we have
just been doing. I believe that these laws and social
regulations regarding women contain certain fundamental truths
which will benefit whoever applies them. The present time of
widespread rethinking of the role and rights of women is
perhaps the appropriate time to look with fresh eyes at the
Islamic point of view, which has contributed to the formation
of stable societies in both sophisticated and underdeveloped
peoples in vast areas of the world over the past fourteen
centuries, which has retained the continuity of its principles,
and from which the Western world may have something to learn.