Marriage to ‘Ahl-e-Kitaab’
(Jews &
Christians)
By
A Student of Darul-Uloom, Holcombe, Bury.
"Made lawful for you this day are At-Tayyibat
(all kinds of lawful foods, which Allah has made lawful. The food
(slaughter cattle etc.) of the people of the scripture (Jews and
Christians) is lawful to you and yours is lawful to them. (Lawful
to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and
chaste women from those who were given the scripture (Jews &
Christians) before your time."
(5:5)
The verse clarifies that the ‘Ahl-e-Kitaab’ are
those people to whom the scripture has been revealed from Allah.
It also lays down the stipulation for marrying them that they be
chaste, and as can be derived from the following verse, marriage
is permissible regardless of the contents of the scriptures being
changed by the people.
For Allah says in the Qur’an:
‘Among those who are Jews, there are some
who displace words from (their) places.’
On another occasion Allah says:
‘And the Jews say: Ezra is the son of
Allah, and the Christians say Messiah is the son of Allah.’
The Christian and Jew women who do not believe
and practice their own religion can not be considered to be real
Christians and Jews. They are either atheist or irreligious. So
they are like idolaters and polytheists, these women are not
lawful.
‘It has been stated in the books of
jurisprudence that to marry Women of the Book is lawful, but it
is better not to do so.’ (Shaami pg. 397 vol. 2)
In the aforementioned verses, it has been
specified that Allah granted the Jews and Christians the title of
‘Ahl-e-Kitaab’ despite their accusations and slanders in relation
to Jesus, and their performing of evil deeds. Until and unless
they leave their respective religions, they will be included as ‘Ahl-e-Kitaab’.
If they do by any chance, leave their religion, marriage will not
be permissible unless they accept Islam, for Allah says:
‘Wed not idolaters, till they believe.’
Despite the above-mentioned concept, the
majority of Ulamah’s are of the opinion that marriage is not
permissible to a woman of the Ahl-e-Kitaab.
By something being permissible, it does not
necessitate it being likened by Allah. There are many instances
where Shari’ah has pronounced an act lawful, but mentioned its
implementation undesirable, e.g. divorce, out of genuine
necessity divorce has been made permissible, but it being highly
disliked by Allah. The lawfulness of eating soil has also been
mentioned, but this does not implicate it being praiseworthy and
a must for everyone. Similarly, the permissibility to marry an
Ahl-e-Kitaab does not imply that such an act is blessed in the
eyes of Allah.
Whoever has his eyes set on marrying with an
Ahl-e-Kitaab should first consider the consequences in respect to
his faith and Islamic Beliefs. As husband and wife, they will
both sleep under the same covers and sheets. Because of the wife
not considering the importance of bathing after intercourse, the
sharing of beds will result in the immersing in all forms of
impurities. If she has a sudden passion of keeping a pet dog, in
order to satisfy her whims he will allow her to keep one in the
house, in order to prevent the marriage from deteriorating. The
introduction of a dog to the household will culminate in the
entire house, the furnishing and the appliances being fouled by
dog excretion, urination and saliva. The Angels of Mercy will
refrain from such a house and its residents will lose the
inspiration for worship.
If the marriage, at the least, does not break
down and the wife happens to bear a child, then the question
arises whether the child will be brought up in an Islamic
environment, around Islamic doctrines and values.
Every Muslim is ordered to develop through
marriage sexual relationships with only those women who are
religious and righteous, so that the offspring be of a good,
pious nature and beneficial in the hereafter. What will be the
sorry state of the offspring of a man married within the
Ahl-e-Kitaab?
If the marriage fails and the circumstances
lead to a divorce then the children will according to the law of
this country will be in the care of the mother. This will lead to
continuous influence of Kufr and the father will be held
accountable on Judgement Day.
If one were to look with an impartial mind and
a genuine desire for the truth, the disadvantages and drawbacks
for this kind of marriage, the figure will prove to be so great
that even our learned predecessors who disapprove of marital ties
outside Islam, could not have possibly foreseen its dire
consequences.
However, for the aforementioned reasons the
majority of the Ulamah are strictly of the opinion that marriage
to the women of Ahl-e-Kitaab is not permissible.
The great scholar Abu Bakr Jasass narrates in
‘Quranic Decrees’ through Hadhrat Shaqeeq bin Salmah that Hadhrat
Huzaifah bin Al-Yaman radiyallahu anhu, during the
Caliphate of Umar radiyallahu anhu travelled to an area
known as Madain, where he married a Jewish woman. When this
information was reported to Hadhrat Umar radiyallahu anhu
he wrote a letter to him ordering him to divorce her.
Hadhrat Huzaifah radiyallahu anhu upon
receiving the letter divorced the woman and wrote back enquiring
whether the Jewish woman was unlawful for him. The Leader of the
Faithful, Umar radiyallahu anhu replied, ‘I do not claim
that the Ahl-e-Kitaab women are unlawful on Muslim men, but
because chastity and modesty are rarely to be found within them I
fear that their repulsive qualities will filter into Muslim
homes.’
Imaam Tahawi has also stated, regarding this
narration, through Imaam Abu Hanifah, concluding that the
specialists in Islamic Jurisprudence are of the same opinion that
this Nikah is not forbidden, but because of its repercussions it
is extremely disliked (Makrooh-e-Tahrimi).
Allamaah ibn Humaam has stated in Fat’hul
Qadeer that besides the case of Hazrat Huzaifa similar
incidents of marriage with the ‘Ahl-e-Kitaab’ have also been
reported in relation to Hazrat Kaab bin Malik radiyallahu anhu
and Hazrat Talha radiyallahu anhu
Hazart Umar’s radiyallahu anhu time was
renown for being one with hardly any form of corruption at all,
but he still feared the women of Ahl-e-Kitaab as a source of
corruption. We live in era where corruption is widespread and
where the Ahl-e-Kitaab are anything but true Ahl-e-Kitaab. They
who believe in no constraints in following more then one religion
and say, ‘We are innocent, we can commit any sin we like because
Jesus came into this world to repent for our sins, etc.’ They no
longer believe in the Books of Allah and neither do they see
Jesus as a Prophet, but rather as the Son of God.
The corruption is, however, not the only
factor in deciding the ruling. The ‘Ahle-Kitaab’ of today cannot
even be classified as such due to their mass conversion to
atheism, many incidents of which newspapers have reported.
Furthermore, to find a woman from the ‘Ahle-Kitaab’ who can be
termed as chaste in Islamic ideology is also a virtual
impossibility. Hazrat Umar’s radiyallahu anhu words
regarding their modesty ring infinitely true in this age where
corruption has accelerated to unbelievable heights.
Anyone who adopts such women in his family is
certainly inviting Kufr and corruption within his home. Therefore
it is imperative on Muslims not to marry such women if they wish
to follow the ways of the Holy Prophet sallallahu alaihe
wasallam and the Sahabah.
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