Look At The Tongue And The Hands
By Umm Abdur-Rahmaan
© Hudaa Magazine Volume 8 Number 4 January 2001 - Shawwall 1421 AH
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The Prophet (SAW) said:

The best believer according to his practice of Islaam is one from whose tongue
and hand Muslims are safe [Collected by At-Tabaraanee in Al-Kabeer (S.J.S.
1129). Also collected by Al-Bukharee, Vol 1 No 9, Muslim Vol 1 No 64 & Abu Dawud
No 2475. Also see Mishkat Al Masaabih Vol 1]

So believer! Don't you want be the best in your practice of Islaam? Don't you
want be those who enter Jannah and live in delight and ecstasy forever? Then
look at your tongue and hands!

Are our brothers and sisters safe from the nastiness of our tongues and the evil
of our hands? Are our tongues and hands a danger to them and a cause of pain to
them? Are we, through our actions, purifying our souls or destroying them? Are
we truly racing towards Jannah or advancing towards Hell?

Let us look to our tongues first of all. We know full well that backbiting is a
major sin. Yet how minor is our resolve to guard against it! A gossip-filled
comment here of there may seem harmless, but it is a dangerous path to tread. We
are belittling that person in another's eyes. We may have raised our egos high
only to plunge our hearts into darkness.

In this earthly life, such comments serve to destroy trust and mutual affection
between Muslims, leaving rancor and suspicion to settle in their hearts. We also
cause those around us to 'take sides' in this battle of the tongues. Thus a
'seemingly harmless' comment has caused corruption and hatred in society. And
Shaytaan is ever ready to pounce, igniting a fiery word until it turns into a
blaze, so much so that words can even lead to wars. so let us urgently reflect
on the seriousness of this vice, and understand why Allaah (SWT) has compared it
to the vile and sickening act of eating the flesh of one's dead brother:

And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the
flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hat backbiting)... [Al-Hujaraat
49:12]

Let us realize the consequences for our 'Aakhirah also. The Prophet (SAW) has
warned us:

When I was taken up into heaven, I passed by people who had copper claws tearing
at their faces and chests. I asked, 'Who are these O Jibreel?' He replied: 'They
those who ate the flesh of people and insulted their honor. [Ahmad, Abu Dawood]

How will we fare on the Day when tongues are torn apart and faces ripped open?
So how can we dare to let our tongues roam so freely? Rather than listening to
such evil talk, let us use our tongues to secure great reward, by opposing all
forms of backbiting, and with beautiful manners, correcting it. These situations
are oppurtunities from Allaah (SWT) to perform Jihaad, for indeed trying to keep
our tongues is truly a Jihaad, (Jihaad al-Nafs).

Let us hasten to correct our everyday speech. When we speak, have we ever
scrutinised how little sincerity there is in our voices? How mechanical our
speech has become! Our words emanate from our throats and not from our hearts.
How easily do our tongues hurt others. We feign care and concern for our fellow
Muslims, but our hearts may be empty. Yet these are our very brothers and
sisters! We should love them and desire the best for them. Tongues are sharp and
hearts are cold, because the love of self has left no room for others...

Let us examine our words more carefully. Do they bring comfort and relief to
those around us or do they fall sharply and heavily on their hearts? On harsh
word from us sends those gentle servants of Allaah plummeting into sadness and
grief. But know that Allaah (SWT) Hears everything. And the angels are recording
every utterance:

Not a word is said except there is a watcher by him ready to record it [Surah
Qaf 18]

How will we fare when all our unkind words appear in front of our eyes the
moment we are given our scroll of deeds? What terror-stricken state shall we
experience on that Day, when it dawns on us that we too could be sent
plummeting, into far greater grief...? We seek Allaah's refuge! Abu Harayrah
reprted that he heard the Messenger (SAW) say:

Indeed a servant may say a word which he doesn't realize and it will make him
fall into the fire further than the East and West. [Bukharee, Muslim]

We must realize dear Muslims, and realize it now, that our words hurt and maim
our brothers and sisters more severely than knives. Would we ever dream of
cutting them with a blade? Yet with our tongues we cut deeply into their hearts.
Know that we cannot be the best in our Islaam if we fail to guard our tongues.
Indeed our Eemaan is in peril if we remain heedless. And if our Eemaan is lost,
we have lost everything... The Prophet (SAW) confirmed:

The Eemaan of Allaah's servant will not be upright until his heart is upright
and his heart will not be upright until his tongue is upright. [Ahmad]

Consider how many times in the day and night we use our tongues! So let us not
delay in looking to see how they may be destroying us. Let us strive to use them
in ways that will, Inshaa'Allaah, save us, for indeed countless are the ways our
tongues can secure Jannah, Insha Allaah!

O you who wants to be the best believer! Run and rush towards gentle speech and
good words. Call to tawheed, enjoin the right and forbid the wrong, and teach
others with your tongue. Allaah (SWT) has shown us the way, if we would only
try:

Who is better in speech than he who invites (people) to Allaah, does righteous
deeds and says 'Indeed I am a Muslim. [Surah Fusillat 41:33]

So heed this advice, before your opportunity is gone and your tongue falls
silent in the grave...

And what of our hands? Are they stretched out offering help and charity to the
needy? And are they being used to perform the best of good deeds? Or are they
grasping and taking what does not belong to them? Are our hands selling doubtful
food and drink to others? Do these same hands angrily hit our children for
shortcomings we once had ourselves...?

Let us examine our hands closely. If they are taking more from others and giving
less, or harming more and comforting less, then realize that we may be
oppressors! Our hands are oppressing our dear brothers and sisters and
ultimately, damaging our own souls. Take heed lest these hands carve out a path
to misery...

Understaind that we must all remain on our guard against Shaytaan and realize
how he uses the hands of men to fulfil his evil designs. Men like Abu Lahab,
whose two hands will roast in the flames:

Persih the two hands of Abu Lahab and perish he! his wealth and his gains will
not benefit him! He will be burnt in a fire of balzing flames! [Surah Lahab
111:1-3]

Know that Shaytaan seeks to fling your hands into the fire too! So be aware!

Let us recognize that our two hands are an immeasurable blessing from Allaah
(SWT). How beautifully has our Lord and Cherisher constructed them! And how
diverse and complex the tasks they can perform! Consider what great good they
can do, by the permission of Allaah and how much of the Aakhirah they can gain!

Let us go out of our way in using our hands to help our brothers and sisters,
near and far. And let us not forget the simple things, for even the smallest
deeds can yield the biggest rewards. The Prophet (SAW) said:

A main passed a branch of a tree lying in the road and said, 'By Allaah, I want
to remove this out of the way of the Muslims so that it will not hurt them', and
he was admitted to Paradise. [Muslim No 914]

This hadeeth should inspire us to race to pick up something fallen on the road
or sidewalk, or even in the grocery store. Consider that we are not only saving
the Muslims from harm, but many other beautiful creatures of Allaah - like the
insects and birds, the animals and the plants. (For example, the simple act of
throwing empty drink cans into these empty trash cans, with painful
consequences.)

Let us not scorn any kind of opportunity to use our hands in good works, for
Allaah (SWT) showers us with such opportunities every day and night. Even if it
is just cooking a nice meal, thus bringing friends or family together, blessings
may come from on high, Inshaa Allaah:

The best among you are those who feed others and respond to the salaam [Ahmad,
Al Haakim, Saheeh ul-Jaami' As Sagheer No 3318]

And let us not forget the one who does the dishes afterwards, and the reward for
the them, Inshaa Allaah, for they use their hands to ease other of this chore!
Subhaan Allaah! How easy it is to earn Paradise!

O friend! Reflect on this hadeeth, for in it may lie one of the keys to your
salvation and success, in this life and the next. Following its wisdom may,
Inshaa Allaah, permit us to recieve our books of good deeds in our right hands
and joyfully respond with our tongues, to the salaams of the angels as they
bring us to the gates of Paradise! So let us never be harsh with our innocent
children, who are our beautiful flowers. And never let us be indifferent to our
wise and caring elders. Let us strive with these duties now, while we still have
these precious gifts from Allaah (SWT) - our tongue and our hands.