One night there was a woman at the airport who had to wait for several
hours before catching her next flight. While she waited she bought a book
and pack of biscuits to spend the time. She looked for a place to sit and
waited. She was deep into her book, when suddenly she realized that there
was a young man sitting next to her who was stretching his hand,with no
concern whatsoever, and grabbing the pack of cookies lying between them.
He started to eat them one by one. Not wanting to make a fuss about it
she decided to ignore him. The woman, slightly bothered, ate the cookies
and watched the clock, while the young and shameless thief of biscuits was
also finishing them. The woman started to get really angry at this point
and thought "If I wasn't such a good and educated person, I would have
given this daring man a black eye by now." Every time she ate a biscuit,
he had one too. The dialogue between their eyes continued and when only
one biscuit was left, she wondered what was he going to do. Softly and
with a nervous smile, the young man grabbed the last biscuit and broke it
in two. He offered one half to the woman while he ate the other half.
Briskly she took the biscuit and thought, "What an insolent man! How
uneducated! He didn't even thank me!".
She had never met anybody so fresh and sighed. Relieved to hear her
flight announced. She grabbed her bags and went towards the boarding gate
refusing to look back to where that insolent thief was seated. After
boarding the plane and nicely seated, she looked for her book which was
nearly finished by now. While looking into her bag she was totally
surprised to find her pack of biscuits nearly intact. If my biscuits are
here, she thought feeling terribly, those others were his and he tried to
share them with me.
Too late to apologize to the young man, she realized with pain, that it
was her who had been insolent, uneducated and a thief, and not him.
>> How many times in our lives, had we known with certainty that
something happened in a certain way, only to discover later that it wasn't
true? How many times has our lack of trust within us made us judge other
people unfairly with our conceited ideas, often far away from reality.
That is why we have to think twice before we judge others. Let's always
give others the benefit of the doubt before we think badly of them.
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