Women
At a time when the rest of the world, from Greece and Rome to India and
China, considered women as no better than children or even slaves, with no
rights whatsoever, Islam acknowledged women's equality with men in a great
many respects. The Qur'an states:
"And among His signs is this: that He created mates for you form
yourselves that you may find rest, peace of mind in them, and He ordained
between you love and mercy. Lo, herein indeed are signs for people who
reflect." [30:21]
Prophet Muhammad said:
"The most perfect in faith amongst believers is he who is best in manners
and kindest to his wife." [Abu Dawud]
Muslims believe that Adam and Eve were created from the same soul. Both
were equally guilty of their sin and fall from grace, and both were forgiven
by Allah. Many women in Islam have had high status; consider the fact that the
first person to convert to Islam was Khadijah,the wife of Muhammad, whom he
both loved and respected. His favorite wife after Khadijah's death, AŒisha,
became renowned as a scholar and one of the greatest sources of Hadith
literature. Many of the female Companions accomplished great deeds and
achieved fame, and throughout Islamic history there have been famous and
influential scholars, jurists and mystics.
With regard to education, both women and men have the same rights and
obligations. This is clear in Prophet Muhammad's saying:
"Seeking knowledge is mandatory for every believer." [Ibn Majah]
This implies men and women.
A woman is to be treated as God has endowed her, with rights, such as to be
treated as an individual, with the right to own and dispose of her own
property and earnings, enter into contracts, even after marriage. She has the
right to be educated and to work outside the home if she so chooses. She has
the right to inherit from her father, mother, and husband. A very interesting
point to note is that in Islam, unlike any other religion, a woman can be an
imam, a leader of communal prayer, for a group of women.
A Muslim woman also has obligations. All the laws and regulations
pertaining to prayer, fasting, charity, pilgrimage, doing good deeds, etc.,
apply to women, albeit with minor differences having mainly to do with female
physiology.
Before marriage, a woman has the right to choose her husband. Islamic law
is very strict regarding the necessity of having the woman's consent for
marriage. A marriage dowry is given by the groom to the bride for her own
personal use. She keeps her own family name, rather than taking her husband's.
As a wife, a woman has the right to be supported by her husband even if she is
already rich. She also has the right to seek divorce and custody of young
children. She does not return the dowry, except in a few unusual situations.
Despite the fact that in many places and times Muslim communities have not
always adhered to all or even many of the foregoing in practice, the ideal has
been there for1,400 years, while virtually all other major civilzations did
not begin to address these issues or change their negative attitudes until
the19th and 20th centuries, and there are still many contemporary civilzations
which have yet to do so.